This week's Tea Blog-a-thon focus, hosted by Gracious Hospital-i-tea, is called "Set the Table, Tea is On." I was blog-hopping recently and found the first of these vintage videos embedded into Angela McRae's entry in Tea with Friends. I followed the related links and found the second video.
On special occasions, my mother's and grandmother's dining room tables looked very similar to those shown in these videos -- elegant linens, sterling silver coffee and tea sets, and beautiful floral centerpieces. I have the same traditional dining room set, but occasions I host in my home are more casual than those my mother and grandmother hosted.
While I truly value courtesy and use it fully in all venues, as I listened to the narrator of these videos describe good manners and articulate instructions for properly hosting a tea party, I must admit that I'm glad the rules etiquette have relaxed over time.
Just click each video to watch. Enjoy!
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